Teaching a child to behave properly is not an easy matter. It requires a lot of time and effort from both parents. One of the main aspects of parenting a child consist on disciplining him or her. Keep in mind that the aim of discipline is to teach your child to behave in an acceptable manner. We need to be cautious when disciplining our children. We have to know when to be strict and when to be lenient. Remember that too much leniency can result on more misbehavior. As parent, we have to know when to give exactly the right type of punishment, in the right amount and at the right time. You do not want to punish a child for something they did three hours ago. You have to correct the bad behavior exactly when it occurs.
Keep in mind that children learn by modeling the behavior of adults, particularly that of their parents. Make sure that your behavior is role-model material. One of the first things you have to remember when disciplining your child is to be calm but firm. Do not act upon anger and do not spank your child, spanking will only teach them that it is ok to hit when they are angry. Explain to your kids what you expect from them before you punish them for certain behaviors and do not forget to reward good behavior.
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